Dating Done Differently

We’re professional icebreakers who are reviving London’s dating scene with feel-good events and curated experiences.

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Upcoming Events

07 May
07:15 PM
25-38 yrs

Games Themed Speed Dating

Draughts, 41 Kingsland High St, London E8 2FA
£18

Draughts is a super-fun concept bar located in the heart of Hackney, next to Dalston Kingsland Station and minutes from Dalston Junction Overground. This unique games-themed event unfolds in a private area of the venue, renowned for its contemporary vibe, unfussy drinks menu, and extensive games library. One of our most popular events, you will have a real blast meeting up to 15 potential matches at this light-hearted and wholesome evening.

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10 May
07:30 PM
30-45 yrs

Speed Dating in The City

The Anthologist, 58 Gresham St, London EC2V 7BB
£15

Located on Gresham Street just a 3-minute walk from Bank station, The Anthologist is a contemporary bar & restaurant with a cosy semi-private seating area reserved exclusively for your It’s a Date event. This venue has a remarkably warm and welcoming vibe, combined with our host and a group of outgoing singles, and you have the recipe for a fantastic speed dating evening!

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11 May
07:30 PM
30-45 yrs

Singles Party in Kings Cross

Drake & Morgan at Kings Cross, 6 Pancras Sq, London N1C 4AG
£20

Grab your complimentary welcome drink and get to know a group of more than 50 single guests at this super-fun and relaxed event. Our host will provide the social glue; ensuring everyone has a blast as they make new connections.

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13 May
07:30 PM
50-65 yrs

Speed Dating in Paddington

The Lockhouse, 3 Merchant Sq, London W2 1JZ
£15

Conveniently located in the heart of Merchant’s Square overlooking the Paddington Basin and just moments from Paddington station, you’ll find The Lockhouse. A private mezzanine in this relaxed venue is home to some of our most well attended and fun speed dating events. We don’t know if it’s the unbeatable location, great selection of beers and wines, or just our charismatic hosts that draw in the crowds but whatever the reason, you can be sure of a cracking evening!

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14 May
07:30 PM
30-45 yrs

Boules Evening in Waterloo

Boulebar South Bank, 101 Upper Ground, London SE1 9PP
£22

Meet a great group of single Londoners aged between 30 to 45 at this fun-filled and fast-paced Boules event in Waterloo.

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15 May
07:30 PM
40-55 yrs

Speed Dating in Waterloo

All Bar One, 1-3 Chicheley St, Greater, London SE1 7PY
£15

Meet up to 15 potential matches during 5-minute dates at this great fun and relaxed event designed for guests in the 40 to 55 age group.

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16 May
07:30 PM
25-38 yrs

Singles Mixology Masterclass

The Alchemist, 145 City Rd, London EC1V 1LP
£30

Meet fun-loving singles and learn how to craft some killer cocktails at this Mixology Masterclass designed for single people aged 25 to 38.

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17 May
07:30 PM
30-45 yrs

Singles Bowling at All Star Lanes

All Star Lanes, Victoria House, Bloomsbury Pl, London WC1B 4DA
£20

Prepare to strike it lucky with up to 30 guests as we take to the lanes at this lively evening of introductions, entertainment, and…you guessed it – bowling!

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20 May
07:15 PM
30-45 yrs

Games Themed Speed Dating

Draughts, Arch 16 Leake St, London SE1 7NN
£18

Draughts is a super-fun concept bar located in the iconic Leake Street Graffiti tunnel just steps away from Waterloo Station. This unique games-themed event is hosted in a private area of the venue – The Loft, with a contemporary vibe, beautifully exposed brickwork, and our own private bar.

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How it Works

Like the idea but looking for more detail? We’ve got you covered! Check out our short video of what to expect at your event.

Search & Book

Choose and book an event that matches your preferences, age, and location.

Welcome

Our friendly host will greet you on arrival and run through details of the event.

Relax

Arrive on time to grab a drink, get comfortable, and start socialising.

Have Fun

Everyone is here for the same thing - to have fun, meet new people, and make meaningful connections.

Keep Track

Make a note of guests you’ve enjoyed meeting to update your profile with potential matches.

Reconnect

After the event, your dashboard will notify you of reciprocated matches to keep the conversation (and good times) flowing!

Search & Book

Choose and book an event that matches your preferences, age, and location.

Welcome

Our friendly host will greet you on arrival and run through details of the event.

Relax

Arrive on time to grab a drink, get comfortable, and start socialising.

Have Fun

Everyone is here for the same thing - to have fun, meet new people, and make meaningful connections.

Keep Track

Make a note of guests you’ve enjoyed meeting to update your profile with potential matches.

Reconnect

After the event, your dashboard will notify you of reciprocated matches to keep the conversation (and good times) flowing!

Why Us

Here are just three reasons we make a great wingman!

Feel Good Events

We love what we do, which is why we’re so good at it! Our awesome hosts take real pride in ensuring guest experience, tailoring an approach to best suit your needs whilst having a lot of fun along the way. Our themed nights and ‘by Invitation’ events are uniquely designed to maximise matching outcomes whilst a strong link with our chosen charity ensures positive social impact with every ticket sold.

A Safe Space

We think our venues are some of the best in town, hand picked primarily for their ease of access and first class service. We are cheerleaders for kindness, honestly, and respect - values at the heart of our business to protect our growing community. We are in your corner, from pre-event pep talks to ensuring your data security whilst using our post-event messaging platform.

Designed for You

Because we recognise it’s sometimes less about speed and more about accuracy. We ask a little more about you to build a profile that allows us to deliver a lot more in terms of matchmaking outcomes. You will then be invited to tailored events with like minded guests that reflect your shared interests. The result - more common ground and a leg up the ladder of love. We call it It’s a Date ‘by Invitation’.

We can’t wait to hear your opinion, in the meantime, here are other guest views of our events.

Glen Ocsko

There are many speed dating services out there, but few consistently deliver events as high quality as It's a Date do. Participants are invariably equal in numbers (which is no mean feat), the venues are always top drawer, and the host is the perfect blend of friendly and encouraging to all involved. If you want an evening of laughter and fun and meeting new people then you can't go wrong by joining them for a wonderful night out.

Michael Green

Good fun event with a good mix of people. James was a great host, welcoming to all and ensuring that people had introductions to make the evening conversations flow easily.

Charlotte Perez

I had a lovely time at my first It’s A Date event yesterday! I met some really kind people and made wonderful connections. It was a very well organised event at a beautiful venue, and I will most definitely be joining the next ones. James & Ricardo are phenomenal hosts. They welcomed me with such warm presence when I arrived and stayed with us all night to make sure introductions were made and everyone had a chance to get to know one another. It felt safe and it was really great fun. Thank you!

Caitlin Gulliford

Speed dating was great, and It’s A Date is so well organised. James and the team are super supportive and enthusiastic about making sure the events are smooth and enjoyable. The events they offer are the ideal alternative to the apps (which are the worst we can all agree), and it was a really good group of guys and girls when I attended my first event. I’m definitely looking forward to trying out more events!

Eleri Coulten

Just wanted to say a huge thank you to James and the team behind It’s a Date. I had such a fun night. And the most important bit - it was so relaxed and welcoming - had no issues going by myself. Really nice to meet new people. Thank you - nicely done 👌🏼

Zelda McKay

I had such a fun night! James is a warm and welcoming host, he had curated a great atmosphere. I met loads of interesting people and I felt relaxed and happy throughout.... and I've got a hot follow up date this weekend. Result!

Harsh Chandra

Amazing organisation skills. I recommend this to everyone who needs to find someone on the city. James is awesome in organising this to the perfection.

Jen deMendonça

Great evening. I went on my own and felt immediately comfortable. The host was brilliant - super friendly and making everyone feel at ease. Easy location for me and nice space in the bar - I stayed for more drinks afterwards!! They seem to get a mix of really good people… I’ll definitely be recommending to all my single friends.

Ben Phillips

The inaugural board game speed dating event at Draughts, Waterloo was one of the best dating events I've attended. Great range of games to play, with a high ratio of women whose company I enjoyed and plenty of time to get to know each of them well enough. Thanks for organising, I'll definitely see you again!