Many of our guests will be attending for the first time, so relax—you’re in good company, and our awesome host will take great care of you. Check out the blog posts on our ‘Dating Advice’ page for tips. We also recommend leaning into our values for first interactions: Keep it Human, Be Kind, and Courage is Key (more details on our ‘About Us’ page).
We’re glad you asked! All our reviews are published on Google, and we’re proud to have received such positive feedback from our guests. You can find them by searching for us in your browser.
We encourage guests to attend events within their age range, but it’s just a guideline. Occasionally, we have attendees who are a year or two outside the range (though we rarely notice). You’re welcome to join the age group that feels most comfortable to you, but please consider the expectations of other guests.
After the event, other attendees will see your first name, the first letter of your surname, and your profile picture (if uploaded) before submitting match requests. This same information is visible to support the messaging function.
After the event, log into your profile to view a list of attendees in the ‘Send Matches’ section of the event listing. You can select one of three options for each guest you met:
It’s a Match – You’d like to maintain contact with this guest as a potential love interest.
Friend Zone – You enjoyed meeting this guest and would like to stay in touch as friends.
Not Compatible – You don’t see this guest as either a friend or a potential love interest.
When match requests are accepted, a ‘Message’ button will appear next to the respective guest, and you can exchange messages on our secure platform.
You can expect a warm welcome, to meet lots of new people, and have heaps of fun. One of our organisations values is ‘Courage is Key’ because we recognise it takes a lot to step outside your comfort zone. Go on, give it a go, you’re in good hands. You can also get an insight into our events on our Instagram and YouTube pages, links on the footer below.
Although we don’t have a waiting list, you’re welcome to send us a quick email detailing the event you’d like to attend, and we’ll keep you updated. Occasionally, guests inform us that they won’t be able to attend, allowing us to reallocate tickets to those eager to join.
Don’t worry, we’ll fix this! After your booking, we send an email with the subject ‘Your Event Ticket.’ You won’t receive a ticket attachment, as the email itself serves as the ticket. Sometimes these emails end up in your junk or spam folders, so please check there if you haven’t received it. Additionally, your booking will appear as an event listing in your It’s a Date dashboard.
Our formula for the perfect dating event venue includes:
- It needs to offer great value, and any icebreakers should contribute positively to help guests get to know one another.
- It must be easily accessible, with a short, well-lit walk to major TfL links, so guests traveling alone feel safe.
- It should have adequate space to comfortably host our groups, ideally in a private or semi-private area.
Absolutely! We work extremely hard to ensure a balanced mix of men and women at each of our events. On rare occasions when we don’t confirm broadly equal numbers, we typically reschedule to ensure an excellent experience. If this happens, we’ll send an email with as much notice as possible.
Occasionally we have ‘no shows’ (people who do not turn up) at our events. This is always a real bummer as it skews our gender balance and impacts on other guest’s experience. If you can see guests listed in your dashboard that you did not meet at the event, it is likely they were a no show.
Some guests purchase event tickets via third party platforms such as Eventbrite. In these cases, they have not directly interacted with our website ahead of the event. To overcome this, we send out invites requesting they complete a profile, however, these are not always actioned which means the guest misses out on matching.
In the top right corner of your browser, you’ll see a ‘Login’ button. Click that to visit your profile and start dating!
Following each event, log into your profile to find a list of attendees in the ‘Send Matches’ area of the event listing. Here you can select one of three feedback options for each guest at the event.
1. It’s a Match – you would like to maintain contact with this guest as a potential love interest.
2. Friend Zone – you enjoyed meeting this guest and would like to maintain contact as friends.
3. Not Compatible – you don’t see this guest as either a friend or potential love interest.
If matching feedback is reciprocated, a ‘Message’ button will appear against the respective guest. You can then go on to exchange messages with the guest on our secure platform.
Many other guests will be attending for the first time, so relax, you’ll be in good company and good hands with our awesome host. There are heaps of advice and tips in the blog posts of our ‘Dating Advice’ page. We would also lean into our values to guide first interactions – Keep it Human, Be Kind, and Courage is Key (more details on About Us).
We understand that plans change! If you let us know in writing at least 48 hours before your event, we’ll reschedule you for another event of equal value at no extra charge. If you’re within the 48-hour window, you’re welcome to gift your ticket to a friend of the same gender, or we’ll try to resell it for you. Either way, please notify us so we can manage attendance for everyone’s enjoyment.
Absolutely! Our post-event messaging platform is just one tool to help you connect, but it’s not the only option. If you feel comfortable, you’re welcome to exchange contact details during the event, just as you would in any social setting.
This is probably our most frequently asked question! As of now, we haven’t received any wedding invitations, but yours could be the first—and we make great party guests, so fingers crossed!
We do our best to ensure our events are accessible, though some limitations may depend on the venue. We encourage you to contact us directly (see Contact) to discuss your specific requirements.
Unfortunately, no. We manage attendance closely, so pre-booking is essential to guarantee your spot and help us ensure a balanced mix of guests.
Our events attract a diverse range of people, which is one reason they’re so popular! The main trait that links all our guests is the age bracket. Beyond that, everyone is single and open to meeting new people—an excellent starting point!
Absolutely! You can purchase tickets for friends directly on our website. These will be emailed to them using the email address you provide at checkout. While we love welcoming friend groups, our hosts will ensure you’re not chatting with people you already know for too long, as that hinders the It’s a Date mission.
Event durations can be found in each event listing. Speed dating and themed nights typically last around 2 hours, while our singles parties include 3 hours of hosting. Many guests stay afterwards to continue socialising, so event timing is just a guide.
All event details, including the start time, are listed on our website and included in your ticket confirmation email. Please allow enough time to arrive on schedule—we want you to enjoy the full event!
Just yourself, a positive mindset, and some money for the bar—it’s that simple! In our experience, guests who approach our events with an open mind and a willingness to meet new people, regardless of finding “The One,” have the best time.
Perfect for those looking for a more informal way to meet a lot of new people! We reserve a private or semi-private space at one of our top London venues. On arrival, we’re usually easy to spot, but if you’re unsure, just ask a bartender, and they’ll direct you to the event. You can expect to meet up to 120 other single people, with a balanced mix of male and female guests. Your host will welcome you, provide an optional name sticker, and offer a welcome drink to those arriving before 8:00 PM (typically a glass of wine, bottle of beer, or soft drink). The party lasts about 3 hours, during which our host will circulate to break the ice, introduce you to as many guests as possible, and keep the party flowing. After the event, you can update your matches online and indicate if you’d like to stay in touch as a friend or potential love interest.
We are a dating events company with heart – we genuinely put you at the centre of everything we do, ensuring your experience is relaxed, fun, and positive, regardless of whether you find a match. We may not be the biggest company, but we are small, personable, and friendly. You’re likely to meet our founder, James, at one of our events, and he’s always keen to hear your thoughts on the dating world to help shape future It’s a Date events.
This varies depending on the event. We always provide an estimated number of attendees in the event description, so check there for details. We understand that the more people you meet, the more enjoyable your experience will be, so we aim to reach the maximum number of guests whenever possible.
Speed dating is a great choice for those seeking a more structured event. At your chosen venue, the host will arrange up to 18 numbered tables for 5-minute dates. You’ll receive a name tag, note card, and pen to keep track of the people you meet. Ladies will stay at their assigned tables throughout the evening, while gents move between tables in numerical order. The host will signal when each date is over, prompting the gents to move to the next table. There will be a short break halfway through the event for restroom use or a drink refill. After the dating cycle ends, you’ll have time to reconnect and socialise more broadly before the evening concludes. Post-event matching and messaging will open on your It’s a Date dashboard, so be sure to log in, submit your matches, and plan that second date!